Have you ever seen those totally mismatched couples walking hand in hand that you simply could not figure out? You know the ones where the guy is really no box of chocolates physically and the chick is simply dynamite? It most likely makes you want to walk up to her and ask her what in the world she’s doing with this guy. If you decided to do this, you might be pretty amazed at the answers you would get.
First of all, there are many beautiful women in the world that don’t care that much about how a guy looks. As long as he’s clean and reasonably attractive in certain ways, she’s going to be happy with him if he has other traits. These characteristics have a long range, too.
One of the things that nearly all of these geeky guys have is an abundance of intelligence. Believe it or not, many beautiful women also have brains to be proud of, and these women need more than just a pretty face to spend time with. They want and need someone they can talk to on their own level. As words can be some of the best foreplay ever invented, geeks can come out pretty well in a contest of words. Talking is exciting for many gorgeous women and when they find a guy that can match them “big word” for “big word” it does a lot to seal the attraction.
Geeky guys also have a sort of innocence about them that women love. That’s not to say that they’re all virgins at 21 years old. It just means that their experience with women is typically somewhat limited due to all of the time they spend in more intellectual pursuits. Women adore showing these men the way to a woman’s heart. Usually, these guys are happy to be led, too.
Another winning point when it comes to geeky guys is that once they fall in love, they’re usually not easily tempted to stray. Simply put, they’re inclined to be more faithful to their women than the hunky and sexy guys that will be chased by other women until they’re old and gray. It would take a lot to make the geeks even think about going off with another woman once they’re in a relationship. In fact, they would most likely go straight to their girlfriends or wives and tell them all about what naughty woman that was trying to do. So you may want to keep that in mind if you’re thinking of trying to snag an attached geeky guy for yourself.
Last of all, geeky guys really appreciate their women. Of course, they love the physical beauty, but they also love what’s inside. These guys are not shallow, and often see much more than is on the surface. Women love this about these men because they know that they aren’t expected to be in full makeup and looking perfect 24/7, and their geeky guys will still treat them like queens.
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